Dealing with debt collectors is one of the most unpleasant aspects of being in financial difficulties. It's bad enough that you're having trouble making ends meet, trying to make it to the end of the month before your money runs out. That all by itself is one of the most stressful situations a person can go through, and it's ten times worse if you also have a family that's depending on you to take care of them. And in today's economy, there's the added stress of always wondering if you're going to be laid off in the coming months, and what you'll do if that happens. Add bill collectors calling you to this mix, and it's a truly desperate situation.
Dealing with debt collectors, however, is a fact of life that comes with being in debt. And as much as people despise them, these people are simply trying to make a living and feed their families just like the rest of us. They may seem like they're your personal enemies, but they're not. Don't take their collection efforts personally. And whatever you do, don't make the mistake millions of other have made, and simply bury your head in the sand and refuse to deal with the problem. That will only make the problem worse. Here are some other tips.
If they're calling you at work, tell them to stop. By law they have to, once you request it. Otherwise, as much as possible, try to be upfront with them, and try to work out some sort of reduced payment plan. They know you likely don't have the money to pay them in full, or you would've already. Do not write them a check that is going to bounce, as that will only multiply your troubles. Do not allow them to electronically debit your bank account; that's never a good idea. And use your best negotiation skills to work something out. Always remember, though - when dealing with debt collectors, the main thing is not to ignore them. You can wind up with a court judgment against you that's difficult to remove.